Know who you are and are not.

Everybody has got something to say about what you do and who you are. This include people you know, people you love, people you hate and even people you have never met.

But none of the people who tell you what to do know what is best for you, who you are and you should stop listening to them.

It is important to know who you are and who you are not. If you do not know this, you can spend your life trying to be something you are not. Knowing what you are not will help you stay focused on becoming who you are because there will always be pressures to be this, to be that, to be the other.

If you are trying to be something you are not, you will be frustrated. There is no grace for it. It will be a constant struggle, like it is always uphill.

Our minds may be this mystical thing we cannot yet understand, but it is still a part of this universe, and so it must follow the same rules.

If you want to like yourself, you need to start to push forward and control your life instead of allowing the past and/or people to control how you live. Otherwise, you are just going to be unhappy with yourself.

Ultimately, you are the expert on you. Nobody can know what is best for you better than you can. So trust your instincts, stop listening to other people and own your own decisions.

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Until next week Tuesday, bye-bye for now.

Yours Truly
Tshepo Ishmael Phetoane